I think one basic assumption of humanity is right: people like to deal with you when they benefit from it. So instead of depending on love, it is a better idea that you always make yourself better so people can benefit. That being said, you should always try to build meaningful relationships at the same time. Make all the favorable probabilities work for you.
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我认为关于人性的一个基本假设是对的:如果大家在和你的交往中受益,那么大家就愿意和你交往。与其依赖爱,一个更加好的方法是让你自己变得更好,这样大家就能在和你的交往中获益。
话虽如此,同时你也应该总是尝试建设有意义的人际关系。
这样,让所有的有益的概率都偏向你。
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